Question by Noneya Jones: Why do I seem to have alot of “haters” all of a sudden?
I’m not sure, what the problem is, maybe its my ‘old friends maybe its me” but for some reason, people whom i thought were my friends are acting very negative, I have one friend “shawna” I knew her for over 15 years, and we recently got back in contact a month ago, and we went out to a club and to a movie and stuff, and she was bringing up when my mom and I was struggling, I just felt she was negative, and she texted me last week,”hi crazy lady” and I got a little offended, because someone has been harrasing me and calling me “crazy” and so I just asked her why she was calling me that,but i apologized, but she turned it around and thought I was accusing her being the person that was harrasing me on the internet, then when i tried to call her to invite her over, I guess she blocked my number,and when i asked her about it, she laughed and said her phone was off,..then I have another friend “Kay” we went out on my birthday, and I hadnt seen her in almost a year,and there was no hugs actually she had a med, angry look on her face,..and all she said was “girl look at your hips””Oh I could have done your hair better than that” and when we were out,guys were yelling “Beyonce” I dont know if they were talking about me or her,and I laughed and tried to joke with her about it, and she just ignored me,..I’m like what is wrong with this chick, then she goes on facebook and says” I knew I should have stayed at home and did my hair instead of going out”..then I have another friend named “Ty” I went to her Mary Kay party and she had a angry look on her face and a major attitude..then my aunt (my dads sister) I tried calling to see how she was doing the other day, she ignored me, my moms sister and cousin, I gave them money and found a place to stay when they were in need, and they have major attitude problems, I dont get it, .these are all high school friends, and we’ve grown up togehter but i feel like they are “haters” what should I do,?I ve tried talking to all of them, and I keep getting the same result?
Answer by I Know Huh
Because there are alot of haters nowadays people try and act like they don’t but they do. Just don’t let it get the best of you. That is the goal of negativity to get to you and if you let it. They won.
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